The day I found out I was pregnant was the happiest and scariest day of my life.
My emotions ranged from excitement to fear, from love to anxiety, to a sense of comfort and a waterfall of uncertainty. The only thing I could focus on was getting in to see my doctor so he could ease my mind and assure me that my baby was OK.
On the day of my first visit, I practically leapt out of bed.
During the appointment my doctor prescribed a prenatal vitamin, connected me with a nutritionist and went over how to approach exercise. Leaving his office, I expected to feel a sense of relief, but instead I felt anxious.
And as my pregnancy continued, so did my worry.
I longed for doctor visits so I could hear my baby’s heartbeat and know that she was ok. Yet every time I felt relief in knowing that my baby was healthy, the feeling was quickly replaced with concern that I wouldn’t get to hear her heartbeat again for another stressful month.
It was during this time of emotional uncertainty that a friend recommended Expectful – a platform that makes it easy for expectant and new moms to meditate.
Desperate to reduce my stress, I signed up for their free trial.
At first, I wasn’t sure if it was doing anything, but in three days I noticed an increase in my energy. A week later I was more relaxed, and within a month, I felt like a new woman.
The more I meditated, the less I worried. The random negative thoughts that led me down a rabbit hole of stress and anxiety were no more. Instead, I was filled with a feeling of deep connection to both my baby and partner.
Just as exercise kept my body feeling strong, meditation helped my mind feel more focused and energized. Just as my prenatal vitamin gave me the nutrients and minerals my body needed, meditation gave my mind the ease and self-assurance I had yearned for.
This shift transformed my whole pregnancy, and I was left wondering, why didn’t my doctor ever talk to me about the health of my mind during such an important and challenging time?
Curious as to how meditation directly benefits pregnancy, I dove deep into the available research. What I found made me realize that meditation was doing a lot more than just reducing my stress, it was helping me give my baby a better start in life.
Here is a breakdown of a few of benefits of meditation during pregnancy:
As I mentioned above, meditation really decreased my stress and anxiety during pregnancy, and this did a lot more than just make me feel good… it helped protect my baby too. Research shows that high levels of stress and anxiety increase risk factors during pregnancy1, and by keeping stress levels low2, I was giving my baby a better environment in which to grow.
I gave birth to Annabell two days before her due date and she was seven pounds, 3 ounces. I was fortunate enough to have a full term pregnancy and a baby with a healthy birth weight, both of which are important for her development. A study that explored preterm birth found that women who participated in a mindfulness training program were 50% less likely to give birth early than women with no mindfulness education 3;. I believe my meditation practice was one of the factors that allowed me to give birth at 39 weeks.
Meditation helped me breathe and be present during labor. It allowed me to focus more on my inhales and exhales rather than putting all of my attention on the pain, which only would have increased that sensation. A study of a group of people who attended a four-day mindfulness meditation training found that they were able to decrease the intensity of a painful stimulus by 40 percent4;. Not only was pain reduction a helpful tool during birth and labor for me, but it was also beneficial during my pregnancy and recovery when Annabell needed me more than ever.
I was lucky that I never got sick during my pregnancy or as a new mother. However, this made complete sense to me after I learned that meditation enhances the body’s immune function5. Staying healthy not only kept my body strong during pregnancy, but it also protected Annabell, too.
After seeing all this research, and how it related to my experience of pregnancy and motherhood, it brought me to the conclusion that as a society we are missing one key prescription when it comes to pregnancy: meditation.
With my own personal experience and with all the science that proves how meditation can support pregnant women, I wondered why we aren’t talking more about a woman’s emotional and mental health and recommending meditation during one of the most mentally demanding times of their lives. It’s my hope that within the next few years that when women walk into their doctor’s office looking for the tools that can support them, that meditation be right in line with prenatal vitamins, nutrition, and exercise.
We understand that growing your family while having a healthy and happy pregnancy and baby is probably a top priority for you right now.
We created Expectful to help you harness the power of your mind to have a healthy, happy pregnancy and baby.
All of our meditation content is based on interviews with many soon-to-be and new parents just like you, and is created with the help of licensed psychologists, hypnotherapists, and meditation experts. You can practice in just 5 minutes a day.